The Song of Songs (or Song of Solomon) is the ultimate love poem, written between two lovers to exemplify God's design for intimacy. The dialogue between the lovers is so beautiful, filled with words of affirmation. How often do we talk to the ones we love with such positivity? Whether romantic or otherwise, we should make honest efforts to uplift our loved ones. That positivity influences how we treat them in other areas of the relationship and also how they see themselves.
 
Read the Song of Songs. Let the words resonate with you and use them as a guide for the type of language we should give to and expect to receive from our loved ones.